I’m getting divorced. How can I prepare to move forward more positively?

Research shows there are three preconditions for positive change. First, something must motivate an individual to want to change. Second, a different relationship that creates psychological safety and empathy must exist (like with a divorce coach). Third, there must be optimal anxiety – the right amount of discomfort in the current situation to want to move forward, without being paralyzed in place. When supporting someone you know or if you yourself are going through divorce, these factors are important to keep in mind. The Collaborative Process uses specially trained lawyers and other professionals like coaches and family specialists, who recognize the importance of seeing divorce more holistically and who can help you to make positive change happen, looking to the future well-being of you and your children. For more information on the Collaborative Process, please visit our website or contact us.